Tell me he's not an ass. >:C

[Arim Urem'der]

Seriously, I need to vent about this guy. I don't like to let people grind my gears, but this guy is inching towards a one-way ticket to my car's trunk. Hmpf.



First thing.

He bought her a necklace with a "diamond" in it on their first date. He even went to far as to TELL HER that he was at Austin Jeweler's whens he asked him where he was. Fucker. And he said "I love you" within the week.

He's trying to get into her pants.


Second thing to get on my nerves.

Went to the mall with Gemmy (Enubia and/or Delilah) and her little sister Dana. We're shopping in Chinook, and we reach the foodcourt and asshole phones her. They've been texting each other for a bit, and he's whiney because we didn't bring him along. Apparently her "friends" (AKA Me) are destroying their relationship because I'm wary about Dana dating him. Well, he wants to talk to me (which I oblige) and talk to him. He bitches my ear off about how I'm a labeler, a bitch and a whore. (Yeah, see the irony yet?) After awhile, I'm calmly talking to him, and he keeps acting like a child, so I give the phone back. Dana defends me, but he wants to talk again. I pass the phone to Gemmy instead, and she rationalized things out a bit.


Third thing to get on my nerves.

Apparently he told Dana that she's not allowed to wear makeup anymore. It's insecure, and he wants to get rid of the world's insecurities.


Fourth and final straw.

Nameless told Dana that she MUST convert to Catholicism by Christmas or he'll break up with her. And he tells her it's all Gemmy/Mom's fault that she's not part of this religion.

And apparently he tried to kill himself because of it by stabbing himself. He has a scar, but it's ACTUALLY a burn. And that his father ran away and sexually assaulted his family. (He ran away, that's he only truthful part).





I know I'm ranting, but... seriously... should Dana honestly be dating the nematode? I thought relationships were about acceptance, not forcing someone to change. And I think forcing someone into a religion (Catholicism/Christianity of all things) is a waste of time and an sham. I seriously want to rip this guy a new hole. It's been a stressful two months, and this doesn't help at all.

He's this emo kid who complains and whines about his life on a constant basis. Honestly, tell me this is not an ass. I've never seen such high magnitudes of dickfaced bullshit.

CUSSCUSSCUSSCUSSCUSS SOMEMORE, AMY.

e__e

Anyways, I'm done.

[Arim Urem'der]

NO I'M NOT!!!
FUCKING EMO!!





ARGHBLARHLGSGSAAAAAAAAARRRRRRWAAAAAAA!!!1!
I'LL SHOW YOU STAB WOUNDS.

NOW I'm done.

[seishounohana]

Oh God, Not another one of the assholes that give Catholicism a bad name.

-_____-;;;

[Stu Pott]

Just an aside, my friend recently broke up with the girl he was dating for 2 years because she asked him to become Hardcore Jewish. He's jewish, yes, but not a hardcore jew.

So, yeah, she shouldn't have to totally bend to his will. Relationships are give and take.

[olesya]

If it looks like a duck*, sounds like a duck*, and smells like a duck*, it's a duck*.





*Replace with appropriate substitution for the cliche: asshole.

[Arim Urem'der]

@marianne: >:C Pretty much. I hate this guy, so very much.

@justin: Well, that's probably the right choice for him. If someone's asking you to change something you don't want to (in fair boundaries, obviously BAD habits are a different story) it's unfair. It's not about changing them to what you WANT them to be, isn't that why you dated them in the first place? Sheez.

Agreed. He's being a fricken' control freak.

@ally: Agreed. Completely fucking agree.

["Unfettered"]

1. Alright. How old is this guy? Saying "I love you" in the first week, buying the expensive jewelry... yeah. As a fellow guy, it must be that this Dana is EXTREMELY hot, and he wants to impress her, for the obvious act of copulation. Already a huge bit against him (and me pretty much repeating what you said), which I have to agree with you on. This sounds like (from what you've described), some really large, deceitful, idealistic, egotistical little fuck in his own little world.

Make sure she carries around some pepper spray or summat. Or joins you in jujutsu class.

2. "Bros before hoes, chicks before dicks." It's a goddamned saying for BOTH genders. Maybe this is just me (and perhaps my own personal frustrations), but kids are rushing into these goddamned 'serious' relationships way too early, before they even give themselves a chance to enjoy themselves. And while a girlfriend may not necessarily get a long with a boy's friends, or vice versa, generally, you want to (as one of the major rules of thumb you already pointed out), ACCEPT them, unless they are actually bad for the person, and NOT the relationship (since it's not good to be spending so much time together anyways [...Sorta like tending a fire, when it comes to a relationship. Feed it just the right amount, at steady intervals. Feed it too much, it becomes hot as hell, but all the fuel burns out. Feed it too little, and the fire goes out]).

3. WTF!?

WTF IS THIS SHIT!?

Some manipulative, idealistic, control-complex sonuvabitch?

No. No... You like the girl? You have to accept her. The fact that girls put on make-up for guys is that they are TRYING to look their best, to try and please the guy. It's not a fucking matter of insecurity. And on a more realistic scale, we also have to take into account that girls and guys that aren't as attractive looking don't have an easy time in the real world.

...Worst case scenario, this is also his way of making sure she doesn't look as appealing to other guys, so he can further make sure he can keep her to himself.

4. THIS IS WHAT MAKES US CHRISTIANS LOOK BAD. Let's not even go INTO the fact that this is one of the worst ways I've EVER heard of someone trying to convert someone---fucking blackmailing/threatening someone to convert?

Fuck... fuck... For goodness sake, that's as bad, if not worse then 'evangelical' (well, I dunno how else to term it) Athiests. What's with the 'forcing'!? Are we still in the dark ages!? "OH, LAWL, LET'S GO KILL SOME MOOSLIMS, LAWL." "OH WRY HALO THAR, ALLAH JIHAD!"

...Pardon me.

Anyways. Um. Yes. I'd... have to agree with you. He is very much an asshole.

[Arim Urem'der]

First of all, I'd like to say THANK YOU for saying that. Thank you so very much.



Dickface is 17, Dana is 14. Dana is a very attractive young girl, and has a... habitual tendency to show cleavage that you can lose your dog in (AKA her shirts are extremely low-cut). Her dressing tendencies... could improve, but that's something I can't and won't change. To sum it up, yeah. You hit the proverbial nail on the head. I'd add he's a fugly gremlin, too. I only say that about people who have a rotten personality to go along with it. He's as rotten as they can come.

I'm tempted to give her mace. I swear if he tries funny shit, I'll rip his lips off. Err... literally.


Quiet an accurate statement, really. And that's a reallllllyyyyy accurate statement, it's occurring in my own grade as well (not like I believed they could do much better, anyways. Call me a cynic). I've always stuck to the whole "Let love come to you" statement. Rushing into a relationship and endlessly tailing for love will only lead to disaster, it honestly will. Quiet frankly, I don't think you SHOULD date unless you know the person quite well (NO. A MONTH DOES NOT COUNT) or you've been good friends for a bit. Get a slice of who they are, you know? These two have known each other for like... a week before they dated, and they weren't friends either.

GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT.
ARGHRAAAAAAA.

Well, chances are you won't like -ALL- of their friends. That's OK, you're entitled to that, you don't have to like them just because you're dating their friend. But they're NOT OUT TO GET YOU, either. Like it or not, they're still their friends. They're not giving one up for the other.


PRETTY MUCH. =D
Well... YEAH. That's why I put on makeup, is it so wrong to want to look /pretty/? Especially for someone you're dating? Mindless little fuck, he thinks he's being smart. When he phoned he kept saying "radical" like it was a BIG WORD. I seriously wanted to tell him, "Wow, that's a perplexing conundrum. I am pensive", honestly not THAT big of words, but bigger than his. I think he's trying to be this ideologist, or trying to exercise it on Dana. And it's failing miserably.

I hope that's not the case.
I really do.


Nope, I was not impressed with this end. That's not normal, that's not SANE. You can't treat people- YOUR GIRLFRIEND of all people- like that. If she wants to be Atheist, let her be! That's her choice, you accepted that (supposedly) when you started to date her.

Not at all, it shows that you have emotion and motivation behind your words. Shows you care. Don't apologize.

Thank you. -checks another- Very much asshole.

[Fontes]

Well... I pretty much agree with Unfettered in all points, but regarding point 3, I'd like to give my own words...

Personaly, I don't like make-up. And yes, I consider it as insecurity. Make-up, jewelry, and all that... I like a simple woman, ya know? Natural looks all the way, and all that. I mean, I don't give two shits about looking good, so why would I expect it from the female of my interest? Of course, make-up and hygiene are diferent things! I like a woman who doesn't give THAT much attention to her looks, but I apreciate it if she keeps herself clean... XD

However, I'd never make someone stop using make-up, just because I don't like it. To begin with, I'd probably not even try to date the person, because i know that the make-up thing would annoy me, in the long term.

And regarding point 4... I'm an atheist, and just because of that, dating a religious female wouldn't suit me. If our beliefs clash, it's best to simply not even try. Plus, I don't wish to get married, which is just another nail hammered to the coffin.
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To be with someone, one must be certain that it's going to work in the long run. Even a small habit can become a nuisance, so it's best to know the person first. If there's anything you don't like... You can talk to the person, but if he/she refuses to change, either suck it up, or don't even try to grow a link.

Long story short... That prick just wants a pair of boobs, and a pussy. If I was your friend, I'd use him as a punching bag, to train my Ishigaki Ryu. Also... I'd be a good chance to finally test my "Chest Destroyer"... Ò.Ó

Ok, no stupid coments now... tell her to dump him a.s.a.p. Yes, it's her life... but being her friend, isn't your job to help her on her life path?

[Rem]

Ames, you sure very well know how I feel about this little prick. There's a volume I could say about him, but most, if not everything has already been said. All I will say is that Dana is technically my little sister; he makes her cry and he and I will share more than just words on the issue.

[Fontes]

Oh, and... nah, he's not an ass...

... he's a cock-fucking-ass-mother-sucking-bitch-ass!

... Yeah, I made a post just to write that shit... ^^;

[olesya]

Uhhh-greed. With the lotta-ya. *nod*

My take on makeup is this: I wear makeup, however I only wear powder and eyeliner for the most part. Powder to get rid of the shiny, and liner to accentuate my eyes. Otherwise I could care less. If Im dancing or playing soccer or something, I won't even bother at all (maybe some powder beforehand to get rid of the shiny, but whatever.) If I feel like dressing up or the mood suits me (remember death eyes?) then I'll break out my other artillery. Like, eyeshadow. Very rarely mascara, as it makes my eyes angry.

I agree that girls who live on makeup (wont leave the house without it) or girls who wear too much (I did that freshman year of HS XD), are totally using it as a crutch. But to cover up a zit, or get rid of the shiny, or something, I really don't have a problem with. Society dictates beautiful women and I am jealous of the few women who can look like a million dollars without a speck of makeup. It's a personal choice, and as long as there isn't too much, I don't see a problem with it.

But I would totally be pissed if my bf said I couldn't wear any makeup ever. That IS manipulating and controlling. As well as the religion thing, and I echo what Mikey said, makes us Christians look bad :/ The fucker.

[Purr-Moi?!]

she's 14 and he's 17?

WTF IS THIS!!! she way too young to be hanging out with guys that old! if she wants to become a teenage whore then she should continue dating or w/e him.Tell me she didn't do something stupid like sleeping with him? Why is she even wearing that kind of outfits?!?! She's 14!! you should be wearing cute hyper stuff!! not things that older girls should wear. cleavage at 14? that's just wrong unless you can't help it since you have probs with boobs and t-shirts.

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the whole present thing he's doing is what we call 'open your legs because I give ya presents" and the 'love you' crap is even worse!!! WHEN GUYS SAY THAT SO EASILY...they are doomed to be fucked up by me with a hammer. they don't know what love means when they use it so freely!!

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MAke-up?! I wear make-up because I like it and I feel better wearing that crap [.I'm not going to change or do stuff for a guy!If you like wearing make-up , wear it. Don't change because some fuckface doesn't like it. Dana should just do her thing and get rid off that loser for good and Arim..is she doesn't..make her. Do something about it or he will ruin her.

A guy should love you for who you are! not for who he wants you to be




tsk. Guys like that seriously piss me off.

[Fontes]

I fully agree with Miria on this one... A 14 year old wearing cleavage? I'm sorry to put it this way, but in a way, she practically ASKED for it!

And the same goes in the opposite way. I rarely shave, I have no fashion sense, I don't give a crap about what's "hip", and all that shit, I swear a lot, and I barely step foot on the beach. You like it? Good. Don't like it? Go to hell, I don't care!

[Zack Asiv]

You know if dickface is in texas and hes 17 it wont be illigal for me to practice some safety tactics with his face.

<.<

>.> Just a suggestion, I havn't been able to use the military hand-to-hand combat yet.